When you are happy, you would like everyone to know, though we know very well that happiness grows quietly, away from the eyes of the envious.
There are things you need to talk about only to your significant other or your family. Let’s see what these are:
1. Future plans
Do not tell your acquaintances about future plans in the long run, especially if you are still at the planning stage. First of all, because some plans are bound to fail from the start, as we tend to be too critical.
2. Good deeds
Christianity says that any good deeds must be kept secret, because that is the only way we will receive rewards for them. People who receive praise from everyone for their good deeds and how well they did for others will not be appreciated, but will only provoke contempt.
For these people, even the best thing they do is just to feed their own ego. The wise men of India say that nothing destroys a good deed like pride.
3. Your way of life
You should not talk about your way of life, about how you eat, sleep, or about relationships.
4. Spiritual knowledge
What some people know is not revealed to just anyone, but we should not boast. What we feel inside will reflect on the outside anyway.
5. Family problems
If you are a wife, then never speak with relatives or aquaintances about your husband’s shortcomings. And if you are a husband, never talk badly about your wife.
If you do this, you will always be able to solve your problems, but if someone sticks their nose in your life, they may change your partner’s feelings. Family is really strong if problems remain within.
6. The deeds of others
You can also dirty your soul. It is dirty if we gossip, if we talk about the failures of others, if we judge them and use ugly words.
If we are witnesses of such discussions, let us leave these negative things to sit in our soul without sharing them. Listening is good, safe, and a beautiful thing.